COACHING

DATING AND RELATIONSHIP COACHING

As a coach, I specialise in helping women who have been out of dating for a while feel confident and skilled to jump back in and find a fabulous new partner. My clients are mostly in their 40’s to 60’s and divorced, often with kids.

If this is you, I can help make a huge difference to your dating outcomes, and save you time and money.

I help you know who you are, what you want, and how to get what you want, so you can live your best life with a fabulous partner you deserve .

My dating and relationship coaching program is based on the world leading US based Relationship Coaching Institute’s work, founded on the latest science and the experience of thousands of singles globally. This is coupled with my personal experience going on over a thousand first dates on my road to finding my fabulous life partner. You name it and I have seen and I’ve experienced it, either myself or through my clients, and that experience will make the world of difference to your dating journey.

My coaching program has two parts: Readiness and Attraction

Readiness

Readiness is all about being truly ready to date and be with someone fabulous. This includes …

Letting go of baggage and bruises from previous relationships and what I call exorcising your ex. The research shows that if you are either too negative or too positive about your ex, your chances of finding love again are halved! The number one feedback singles in the 40 plus bracket give after a first date is that the other person talked too much about their ex or kids!

Letting go of limiting beliefs that you put in the way of finding a loving relationship. The classic ones I see again and again are … I’m not worthy, there’s no good ones left, I’m too old, I’m too fat, All men my age just want to date women in their 20s. When it comes to dating, what you believe is what you’ll get. So we will work on getting your beliefs working for you. How to be the chooser?! Confident, deserving, open for love.

Defining your requirements and needs for real happiness. Compatibility is everything in relationship. Being with someone compatible means you can just be yourself, because being yourself really works for them, and vice versa. We take the time to define clearly what brings you happiness. In the attraction stage we use that as a filter to stop all the time wasting and avoid disappointment with dating.

And once you know what your requirements and needs are, being able to set good boundaries. You will learn how to set boundaries, to get what you want by asking for it, without coming across pushy. Readiness is about your relationship with yourself. The starting point for successful dating is being a happy single.

Attraction

Attraction is about how you scout and sort, screen and test potential partners.
Together we will design your unique dating plan.

We will equip you with foolproof approaches to talk to any prospect, anytime you happen to see someone that interests you, be that in a bar, at breakfast, anywhere, anytime. We will go out and meet people together, practicing the art.

Scouting can also include online, where we can curate your profile, to attract the right sort of person.

You will learn about attachment relationship styles, swindlers, narcissists and gaslighters and how to discern them early ,avoiding disappointment and massive time wasting .

You will learn how to decide who is worth pursuing for you and whose not. And when you decide not to pursue, how to move on politely and clearly.

When you go on dates I will help you put your best foot forward every time and make a strong first impression. What to talk about and not talk about on a first date. Also what questions to ask ( without it feeling like the Spanish Inquisition) to learn if it’s worth seeing your date again.

My clients describe me as empathetic, highly intuitive, sassy and a lot of fun. Let’s have fun together finding you a fabulous relationship you deserve .

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